smart_a come and meet here in US or Ukraine and when you face me, then you will realize who will give fuck about me. Just because you are a dumb ass and got scammed dosen't mean everyone is in your category. Like Armin correctly said "a" stands for asshole.
Samrt_a all you can do is sit in front of your PC and look at girls online and masturbate. And when you cant cum and are too frustrated, then you go all over the internet spreading your pessimistic sperms.
If you have some balls give me your skype, let me straighten you up a bit or you lost them too (balls)when you got scammed. I was trying to be courteous but people like you just deserve shit. Go find a girl and fuck her and stay away from my thread.Got it.
Lonleyranger yes Keiv is expensive for locals but comparatively to US its cheaper. I don't see nay good reason go to Keiv. Do you or anyone else has any recommendations for other smaller cities in Ukraine or Russia. Are there any cities close to Keiv within 2 hours driving distance.?
Kiwi.. I have done international exchange programs in past and what i learnt is the best way is to go and stay with a local family and understand the culture. That way you learn lot more about the local people and culture.
“yes loneyranger, I know this one if you mean with the curtains on the covered patio? Its called áóëúâàð ðåñòîðàí, or Bulvar Restaurant. it has a bar downstairs “
Rick4girl,,,, thanks for the info,,, I just found it yesterday.
I don’t know about the bar in the basement, but the bathrooms were straight in from the entrance, and the dinning room was to the right as you walked in. It did have a covered patio, but because it was winter time, the chairs were on top of the tables. The snow was deep in Jan 2010 two tire tracks went in and out of that little street. If I remember right,,,,, the city workers were on strike at the time??
Do you know of any hotels in that area that have a Jacuzzi in the room,,, and not just a public one? I found a website with a list of hotels with J-tubs,,,, but I don’t know where in the city they are located. Some give a reference to Metro stations,,,, which doesn’t help me.
paulx,
Oh, I'm shaking about your post..Oh dear, another wanker that thinks no one fucks with him..Ha, ha, ha....
The last time someone was 'threatened' on the forum ( Martin Colman AKA rag'n'bull ), he pissed his pants and called the cops to sort out an International forum threat..Ha, ha, ha, ha...
As far as looking at girls profiles and trying to rip the head off your little weiner, I think that is what you have been doing, you fucking loser!...Ha,ha,ha,ha....
Paulx, you're nothing but a stupid fool who is overdue for a reality check...Ha,ha,ha...
Paulx: Well done. I didn't think you had it in you to stand up to the forum clown.
While I admit I don't know what smart-ass said as I don't read read his posts - I wondered if you would EVER stop telling us to just get along and to stop quarreling in the forum.
Its nice to know that you have finally grown a set and that you realize a CERTAIN poster will NEVER grow a set - inless you are talking about something for which he wears his training bra.
Well said jetmba,
I wondered also if paulx would EVER stop telling people to just get along and stop the shit on the forum and after all, you should know about arguing and insulting. People can go back on previous posts to see what your've said to others..Oh, and with the help of Martin at the time...
Danny thanks for the city names. Can you please share why do you like Chelnv, saratov, samra, yoshkar. What is the way to meet girls if you just went there without arranging dates. Do they have local agencies or one can use and interpreter and start searching. Any suggestions?
Smart_a = Dumb_a ..ignored:)
Jet. Yep when are you planning to go next to Ukraine.
Looking at Ukraine geographically, I would want suggestions to what 2-3 cities would be good to target in Ukraine for the first visit if i had total of 20 days. Anyone?
If they have agencies, they have scams!! It’s that simple!
Does anyone know of a city without an agency???? I thought about that today,,,, and I remembered a movie called; Congo!! Leave your pc at home and bring your hiking shoes!!
Which cities don’t have agencies in them?? And how can you really know from a continent away??
Traveling into the “wilderness” on your own isn’t a good idea for most of us here. You’ll need to hire a interpreter/guide for the whole trip,,,, 50USD and up per day.
Danny thanks that's helpful. What the best way to deal with language difference? Hire a full time interpreter for a week or what are other options.
Lonelyranger how did you find your girl? What did you do as it seems you didn't use the agencies.
As i research, i see Russia has lot fewer or maybe no agencies compared to Ukraine. Ukraine is full of them. Does anyone know the history of these agencies. When did they come into existence. Has to be after 1990's.
Paulx, I’m not sure which girl you are referring too,,, the girl I call my ex,, is now a permanent ex. I write to someone occasionally, but do not consider her to be a girlfriend. I did marry a Russian woman back in the late 1990’s, and we met on a tour in Moscow.
No,,,, I didn’t say I don’t use agencies,,,, I’ve said that I would prefer not to use them. The women I’ve made the trips over there for, have all been from agencies. I didn’t always go into the agency to meet them,,, sometimes I only met with the interpreter. I’ve been inside of 2 agencies, and met with the owner 2 other times.
I wrote to, and planned to meet with about 10 women, several didn’t show up. I met with other women while in some cities, some from the agency,, and some on my own. I met about 5 or 6 on my own,,,, and you know what’s really funny???? They belonged to an agency as well!!! You can’t escape it!
The dating agencies have been around for a long time. Most were for locals, then opened their doors to the western world when the wall fell. In the beginning the agencies were in control of everything,, men came to see them, they introduced men to the girls or sold the girls’ addresses. As internet dating became popular, the agencies were about to become obsolete. A deal was made to work together, agencies would find the girls and take care of the local business,,, letters, phone calls, flowers, etc, and websites would bring in the men. Sometimes they still battle over their cut,, or their share of the pie! I have been told, that some agencies are still bitter with the websites, for taking control away. Sometimes agencies have been accused of sabotaging correspondences and relationships, in retaliation of the takeover.
Danny says: "To find girls. Just look lost any one of the thousands of girls will want to look after you .... That's what Russian girls like to do . "
Thats an excellent point.
Women have heard basically every obvious pick up line there is. But if you look lost (not desperate - but lost) they will go way out of their way to help you.
As I wrote earlier - a Ukrainian woman closed the store to walk me to a flower shop when I looked lost.
They will fall all over themsleves to help you out in a grocery store - I mean other customers will - not store employees.
If given the choice the "look lost" approach is far better than going to an agency - because it is an agency's JOB to relieve you of the most money it possibly.
Russian women, when they like you, are natural nurturers - nd it a great way to meet them.
Think of "agencies" the way that most of us think about "interior decorators".
A lot of people - with too much money - who can't seem to think of enough foolish ways to spend it, when they buy a house, they will hire an "interior dectorator" to tell them how to make it look good, what accessories to buy, etc. etc.
Its fine if you can afford it and if you remember that the JOB of the interior decorator is to relieve you of as much cash as possible - not to really decorate your house. If your house actually gets decorated - well that's okay too, I guess.
Likewise a dating agency has its own agenda too.
I have to depend on AFA and its affiliate agencies to put together a Romance Social - because I can't do it myself and I feel it works the best to meet women. But except for a Romance Social - I don't use any of their agency services.
Your first order of business should be a simple "vacation" to Ukraine. We all need a holiday each year...book yours to Ukraine....go to experience what it is all about, without the stress or expectation of getting your moneys worth"...or the pressures / stresses / expectations of meeting women.
Ride the marshrutka to other cities - big and small...meet local girls on the ride along the way. Observe your daily surroundings, enjoy all the beautiful women, the beautiful culture - and yes....notice how many women are happily coupled up with Ukraine men - they are not all lazy drunks...and the women do not need to be saved by some western hero! You have to present the best version of YOU!
Once you have an idea of what's in store, then you can set out your next visit to Ukraine with a better understanding and a better set of expectations. Know your parameters..keep in mind women know you are meeting more than one women.
I decided to only meet women who can speak English...proficient - not fluent is OK...down side? n one site, I only found 445 hot women who are proficient and do not require a translator....save time / money / hassle.....meet a women you can actually converse with?????
Think about it - if these non-English speaking girls were serious about hooking up with a westerner...they'd be learning / improving their English - going to classes / self study groups...really making an effort.....but they don't! Not because they can't afford it, (because they can), but because they have no interest of ever leaving Ukraine!! Period.
So...reality check...if you want to go and simply "hook up' with hot UA girls for pleasure - do it. If you are going to sincerely meet your beloved...this required a lot more work.....stat with a vacation - know your enemy! LOL
GaryCanada: I have to disagree slightly. I fid a lot more than 1 in 445(?) women can converse in English. Seems to me to be about one in 4. And I never use a translator.
If she isn't exactly proficient but she really likes you - she will try harder and you can have a great time working with her..
Also - even though a lot of Ukrainian women have Ukrainian boyfriends - a LOT of them say things to me like "why can't our men be like you"? Obviously I take that as a compliment and an indication that I did something right.
I am not the most social or outgoing guy in the world - in fact quite the opposite. But people say I make a great first impression. (I joke that its true. In fact it will take you a few meetings to realize you don't like me. It doesn't happen right away.)
Probably the most fatal flaw I see in western men trying to appeal to Ukrainian girls - is that they seem to come across as classless. You don't have to be able to recite the classics and to be a member of the local yacht club - but if you come across as a "rum-dumb" you aren't going to get very far with these women.
You don't want to look like you are "from the village". That's an expression I hear a lot when they describe undesirable western men.
Don't pretend you are wealthy if you aren't of course. But don't pretend to be a yokel either - because Ukrainian women don't want that either.
I know of one older man who attended some Romance Socials - who was worth several million dollars. Of course he didn't want a girl who ONLY wanted his money - so he dressed like somebody who had fallen off the turnip truck. Well he didn't find girls who were after his money. He didn't find girls at ALL. The girls already have enough guys who fell off the turnip truck and don't need any more.
After 10 years roadrunnin' and still single, It must be time to be more realistic about yourself and look into the mirror and see what the babes see, 'from the village' and 'fallen off the turnip truck'....
Ok. ... Lonely how many Russian city's do you think there are “
Danny,, what does that have to do with anything??? I asked you; how can you tell if a city doesn’t have an agency,,,, from a continent away?? It’s a valid question!! But you can’t answer it,,, can you??!!
“Can a non English speaker come to your country and start work 2 days after she arrives”
“Don't worry about language ... You will manage... Only a sissy needs a guide for Russia... “
Paulx,,,,, think long and hard before using ANY of danny’s information. He has said it many times himself,,,,, He is not here to help anyone!!! He is only here to annoy!!
Why does he fill the forum with disinformation?? Just to annoy!!! Being a thorn in our side is more important to him, than helping anyone!!! The only time the guy says something right,,, is by mistake, or if he doesn’t understand the question!!
Go back and read his posts, then read mine,,,, he HAS to be opposite or contrary on everything!!
He would happily send someone up a creek without a paddle,,,, just for the laugh!!
If you have been paying attention to anything he says,,, or taking notes,,,,,, DO NOT rely on it!!!! Double check it!!!
Jet,,, when I returned to Kiev this winter, I met up with my ex for supper. I told her about the problems in Sumy,,,, we talk about everything. She said to me;,,,, You are too good for Ukrainian girls!!!