I'm still here, and still recovering from my last trip to Russia. Been back a litte more than a week and just now getting back into my rut. Trying to sort out my feelings for the girl I visited and the many strange experiences I had this time even though I have visited this same girl before. Been wanting to post about it but there is so much.... maybe later.
Hope to get over to the FL east coast soon and maybe we can have a beer. I'm guessing you are not too far from the end of the alley (I'm at the other end)
All the best to Jet !!
Yep Neon I am at the end of the Alley. Just buzz down to University. A hair north and Broward there you are.
I have been quiet lately. I know exactly how you feel mate. Once or twice there nearly went back to Marina on my knees. I miss her. You don't just turn feelings on and off like a tap. She isn't a correspondant to me but a very real person. I would be a liar if I said I didn't miss her - I do. 8 months in total. I have not been able to settle to anything since she went. My renovations, my job, nothing. It is ok though I am not complaining. Could have been much worse. Just like John Cleese in Monty Python and the Holy Grail. All four limbs hacked off and he says "I've had worse" :)))
Now I have someone else and I am much more cautious. This looks better. I keep working the kinks out.
Look forward to meeting you guys. The beer is cold. Bring your own women though we are bitch rich.
izi and Neon: We will be in Florida the lst two weeks in July - I would love to meet up with you guys - and have you meet my lady - but there are certain subjects (like some of my pst experiences discussed in this forum) that we really cannot talk about. Don't know exactly what we are going to do - but she has told me that she wants to la out each day at least a little and get a good "sunburn". I keep corrcting her and telling her that what she really want is a sun"tan". We're getting there. And of course Neon - ask away - anything about the fiance visa thing I can help you with I would be certainly willing to offer advice.
In all seriousness - it might be good for my lady to see some of the goodlooking albeit bitchy women of Florida. I mean, my lady is gorgeous, make no mistake about it, and unfortunately, she knows it. Regarding American women she seems to think that they are ALL fat. While she may be right about Wisconsin women - it might be good for her to see that there are rare Amercan women who are not heavy.
Oodles of porkers in Florida :)) You had better watch her in that sun Jet. It is freaking hot here. In fact right now I don't even go out in it and I am used to it and love it. It will give you a headache in a heartbeat, she has no idea how strong it is. We have also had a late rainy season here and it has been down pouring a bit lately. Still there are plenty of things to do. Airboat ride out into the Everglades for one, lots of gators, turtles and birds. Indian village. All the beaches you can eat. Lots of glitz and bikini babes on South Beach. I never go there. Beware that sun though it is absolutely brutal and you can end up in hospital quite easily.
WTF is this hush-hush bullshit, boys...??
Speak openly or take it to the sanctity of your private e-mails.
Stop sounding like a pair of gossiping nail store technicians...(damn, I hate to have my pedicure done and not understand what those asian ladies are saying about my long webbed toes.
Jet, your woman will fry like a french fry in Florida in summer. Be careful.
Pass the nail polish. No that bright red one, that's right the one with the metalflake. And I want little Harley Davidson symbols on my thumbs. Oh shit all the nail has rubbed off from where they have been dragging on the ground. Dammit!!
i will agree my lady is one of the best and her son is great also she is planning to bring many things with her here
she was going to sell her apartment but will keep it for now and maybe sell later she wants to have a place to stay when we go back to visit her family
the food was great and i want talk about the other things you all can guess the rest
i was going to go back in sept but she said not to waste the money just keep it till she arrives and we can shopping
i wish that i have been here sooner but then i may not have found the perfect woman
Izi, did you decide where we should meet? Music loudness should be low enough so that we can hear each other. Did you ever noticed that in most outdoor restaurants/bars/places in Russia and Ukraine it is difficult to carry a normal conversation? The music is so loud I cannot hear myself think and it is practically impossible to carry a conversation. So, when faced with that situation I just order another beer and head for the dance floor :)
Just two and a half days to go. Talk about "self doubt" (from another thread) somehow it seems completely unreal to imagine that she will be on that plane.
As I have mentioned before - in our case the 90 day thing (for a fiance visa) is NOT a technicality. We intend to fully utilize it to determine if we are RIGHT for each other.
I cannot say yet - that we have reached the point QC made about "can't live without" her yet. I wish I could. Part of me wonders if we are ready (there is that self-doubt thing). Part of me wonders if I SHOULD have that "Can't live without" feeling even now - or if that is just a sign of a burning infatuation. Will it come ever? Or even - Should it come?
Monday night and Tuesday will find me as a bundle of nerves. Will she be there and will all go well?
Should mention again - I wil be leaving the forum as of then. But I AM willing to write to anyone who might need some advice - in whatever capacity I can give it. My reason for leaving the forum is simple - the archives contain many points and references I have made over the last two years that could spell an end to may relationship with my lady. I have been a little TOO open on some things in this public forum - and there is a particularly detailed account, in several threads, of an "adventure" that she does not know I took.
Must admit - I am slow in writing tback to people on occassion (a complaint heard often from friends and relatives) but if you are patient - I will try and do what I can.
Got to get back to cleaning and preparing (stocking refrigerator, etc.) now. I want this place to be really nice for her.