uhuh ... But you havent understood that your pain and dilemma starts the day you get married. Its all peaches and cream now. Lets see how long the homesickness and russian dilemmas take and she wants to go back.. you will then be another person on here who will dissapear off the forum to embarrassed to admit whats happened....
"This was an awesome forum at one time. After a few trips to Ukraine, there is a beautiful woman sleeping on my sofa right now from Mariupol. In April we are going to be married. Good God men, use common sense, this isn't rocket science, this isn't a game of who is scamming who"
Who is this 1-2-3-4 maniac? He has some really serious issues and they aren't to do with this lady from Azov!!!! So he wrote to her, went there for a holiday, thought he had found a "good-un" but she changed her mind, then married someone else. Sounds like my first two girlfriends when I was in my teens. At least I assume they subsequently married someone else.
Which bit are you so pissed about dude? That she dumped you for someone else or that you gave her $300 and thought that would impress her? You don't mention the cost of the trip so I guess you must have hitched there, or else this would be a major issue for you as well.
I don't really think your Senator will be that bothered, I expect his office laugh at your ranting letters weekly. Sounds like she had a lucky escape to me
So many twisted farts on here that think life owes them a woman cos they paid for the postage. Can Fiance.com set up a seperate "bitching" forum? I'm sick and tired of listening to these guys who couldn't even pay a woman to stay with them.
Post's on here should be about shared knowledge and experience. Can anyone honestly say that they have learned something new from 1-2-3-4's post that will make them wiser in the future? Maybe the learning is that 20 year age gaps rarely work when the older man has the hang ups of a dumped teenager.
Olga don't threaten to delete his posts just do it. It will help you keep the members who actually make a contribution to this forum.
Chedz,
A separate bitching forum wouldn't make a blind bit of difference. Wherever you go in life there are 'attention seekers' who have f*cked up big time, these guys have been bedazzled by a pretty pair of eyes and smile, they've fallen in love with a photo and they've gone in with their eyes closed.
Then they come to a forum such as this for a shoulder to cry on, to seek attention and to put any blame 100% on to the lady(s). Three such examples are Steeleman, Vanechka (aka Gods Gift) & now 1-2-3-4.
you’ll be the first to know if it fails. I am more than man enough to admit and face my failures. I’m sure your story is the same as 1,2,3,4 you thought just because you showed up in their country you were some kind of saviour and all the poor and impoverished women of the FSU should be kissing your ass because you came to them. You are the reasons scammers are successful.
1stly I have never been shafted by any woman. I will repeat again for the novices. Im in ukraine nearly every year . I know people that run agencies , business people and a lot of friends. Some who helped Steeleman. The fact is that the above story is standard of what comes out of ukraine. My only purpose here is to make sure shemale insect whores like you Martin dont mislead novice people in thinking that its smooth sailing getting a russian wife. In my view its a big mistake marrying one. I havent been gullible enough... So novices can decide whether they listen to the dads army here of left over losers who date russian woman with kids and give advice or people like me who can shed the reality behind the mistakes... I dont want to see people like 1.2.3.4 get shafted emotionally and mentally... Now this is if u want babes... I doubt u know wat a babe is Martin. Sure it might work if you want some old hag chernobyl left over with kids. Sure why wouldnt she live in a western country... Im tired of the Martins here who are clearly affiliated with agents misleading people... Martin next time you go to the loo hold onto your head. You dont want it caving in
I think the part that some people miss on here is that if women from your own country dont want you cos you are an arsehole and you dont know how to behave, then just because an FSU woman is from a different country and culture it doesn't mean that you can expect her to stick around once she realises you are an arsehole as well. It just takes them a little longer due to the language barrier that often exists.
I am done posting on this forum and this site. You will not hear from me again. I will point out what this woman told me: She did not write a number of the letters that my notification said she did.
Feel free to do what you want. I know truth of what happened. I know this whole thing is about making money. As far my identity, Miss Moderator, the U.S. Government knows who I am and that is good enough for me.
I have all the letters, photographs and video to prove my point. I have promises in writing and that is good enough.
I could care less about this woman. I have no jealously of her. My only point is how she slipped through the cracks of our government immigration process and that will addressed, I can assure you. All I know is that I was deceived from the start, and my goal is simply to ensure that this does not happen to anyone else.
Like I said, look to see me no more. I read many anti United States sentiments here, that is discouraging. I could care less what some site thinks of me. I lost a lot of money through this and my goal is to inform people of the truth.
I have not known a single one of these marriages to survive more than four years. In my research as a journalist, I have met with a number of men who have been burned.
It is a sad statement as to what men and women will do to get what they want.
I am not or have ever been a stupid person, as these posts claim. If anything, it only shows the mentality of many men who do this: insults and profanities issued to any who disagree with their mindset. That is the first resource of limited minds incapable of rational, reasonable arguments.
Again, I have said my peace and now exit.
I love my country always. I have no problem with the people and the government of the United States, and I will never turn against it.
Cheers and Good Luck, Guys!
p.s. Thanks Dr, Peason. I am glad you are a man of reason.
Skibum, I like yourself am about your age. In america it's unheard of for someone my age to date a lady so much younger. My preference would be 10 years my junior. And most women that age here ar still very immature, and childish. I'm just wondering why the women that advertise themselves on these sites if its really them. I am a little skeptical at this point. I have been reading forums, and all i here is alot of negativity, with a success story just here and there. I consider myself very nice looking and i'm looking for the same if not alot better from a eastern lady. The problem with this is im sure these select women get parades and parades of emails from men just like me. How do they choose? I havn't joined any membership yet, but i think i'm gonna just to get this out of my system. It's just hard for me to phatham spending 20k, traveling 25 hours to see someone so far away hoping things will match up. As i said i may be skeptical still. I wish you and yours the best of luck, and would love to hear a sucess story from this, or anybody else from here..fox.
So there I was knee deep in grenade pins, out of ammo and only my boy scout knife left to defend my virtue from all of the scamming women in the FSU... GET A LIFE!!! As with all things in life there is a lesson to be learned from all of this. One should check with ones gut to figure out if it is right. So, telling the Senate and House about this what will it do... make them visit the site? Man, if you did all of this backgrounding on this gal I wonder what you were looking at it with, the one eyed head or two? Sure the scammers are out there, hell I check my hotmail account and it is rife with the scamming 'get rich', 'you have won', 'claim your prize' crap. Get over it, get on with life. the minute that you think something is wrong, head the other direction. Congratulations neighbor you are now richer in wisdom, if somewhat poorer in the pocket book. My x took me for over 70k when we divorced, shit I am still here and will continue on.
Good for her, smart girl, she figured this nut job in one meeting. These FSU women have senses like radars, they can pick the jerks and the nutheads in the blink of an eye.
1-2-3-4, you're the perfect women repelent dude, she left you for a 60-year old guy, hehehehehe, it's got to hurt dude, it really has .. and you're in love pain now:::))) and you try to ban all Russian women from coming to America hahahahaha, you made my day::)) journalist you said hahaha I can picture you right now writing the ads for the SUnday paper.
I'll give you no break, you're mean, and jealous, I am glad she dumped you, and I know it hurts like salt on your wounds, and it's all you deserve dumb ass.
She left you for a guy 20 year your senior because he is a far better man than you.
You people, need to listen to someone who is experienced in marrying a foreign woman from a different culture and different country.
I married a Fiji Indian girl, did the fiance visa thing and everything and had to marry her within 3 months.
I had 12 years with her.
After, only 2 months in Australia, she annoyed me that much with her behaviour ( I call it, really getting under the mans skin ), that I had serious thoughts to put her on a plane back home and forget it but I kept giving her chances ( I should have dumped her ass back on the plane at the first sign of a problem ).
I ended up marrying her and had 3 kids to her and when it all ended, it was a friggin mess and disaster and I will pay for it, for the rest of my life, financially and emotionally ..not to mention the endless quarrells and fights over the kids and access.
This is not kindergarten stuff we are dealing with here..meeting and marrying foreign girls from foreign countries.
There will be huge challeges to face..homesickness, cultural misunderstanding, tearing the hair out in frustration..I have experienced it all!
You need to think about what your really doing because if you make a mistake, it will screw up your life!
You don't rush into these things..for me I had a 1 month personal visit and then 3 months living with her before marriage because of the visa restrictions..it was a shotgun relationship..it is not enough time to get to know anybody but because of visa and financial constraints with foreign MOBs, it all gets rushed into, which more often than not, leads to eventual disaster!
Believe me marrying a foreign girl from a foreign country and living with her is a very huge challenge..many men will not be up to the task..intercultural marriages are the most difficult to maintain!
Aussie, my first wife was from the philippines. it was a great 7 years. There rarely was a problem and even though we are not together, we still have a very friendly relationship. Every situation has to be looked at as seperate and different. You must have had some great times too or else you would not be on a site like this. I would gladly enter into another foreign romance and have in Peru. My experience in FSU was not a great one but i blame this on the agency i chose. I checked out the website for the agency i used and found all the tour pictures of the guys having a great time with the translators, couped up at the pub. Have a positive attitude gentlemen!! The ladies can pick this up and you can win in this game too. What girl wants a negative and suspicious guy?