Tinker.....Don't use your 'dinker'!!! Anytime you are paying somebody for services or you are a customer, they
are pleasent to you, IT IS THEIR JOB, the moment you are not paying or customer, their attention will move to another who is a paying customer. What you fell in love with was the sex..I don't believe you were getting for free, so you were like any tom, dick and harry. Like a friend told me one time...you date the stripper, you don't marry her.
Seems you are learning the difficulties in finding a FSU bride. If you are lucky to find one, it will be worth the troubles. If it was so easy, there would be waiting lines at airports, hotels, agencies and russian girls doorsteps.
beemer,
But of course it's easy, you just jump on an aeroplane to FSU and there will be a queue of 'brides' waiting for you at the airport, you simply pick the prettiest one, put her in your suitcase and catch the first flight back home again, the two of you have never met previously, you've probably got absolutely nothing in common, but hey you'll both live happily ever after :)
MARTIN your funny LOL ......THE girls your talking about hang out at the bars , And my dad warned me about them
your right , they make you buy 2 drinks , and they get a cut of the money from the bartender
I am not talking about them ,The drop dead hawt girls that i met in greece were hookers working in the brothels
also known as bourdelo in greek ..... MOST were from russia - some were from romania . saome were from uzbakistan
Like i said earlier . 20 euro buys sex with them
I just thought these girls have to have come from a poor country and i asked if they would come to america
they all said NO .......... whay was i to think? If they having sex for 20 bucks a pop . than this whole mail
order bride must be real right?
LOL I see Viva still pitching PI and TinTin advertising his agency. Viva doing the PI thing twice for 10g's is no bargain.
Tink you don't need an agency to do anything for you beyond translation of letters and you still have to be wary on that. You can arrange to meet the lady without the agency, that's what we did. If she won't meet without the agency then move on to another that will. As long as you understand that the agency is there for one thing only you will be okay.
I had corresponded with about 80 ladies and cut down the list to 3. You will get many idiotic responses from agencies trying to lure your bucks from you.
at the end the only one left was my wife. When you first start correspondence ask for their home, cell number and their address, if they won't give it to you after a reasonable time, move on to another. Ask questions in your correspondence and discuss them on the phone, if they don't know the questions you have discussed in your emails, don't waste much time find another. My wife and I discussed many things via email and then addresed those same questions via the phone. I knew she was legitmate. After three weeks she had no problem with giving me her phone numbers and her address.
Now here is where I differ from many in the forum. When I decided to go and meet my wife, I went to meet her and her only. I personally and this is my feelings only. I don't believe that you can seriously pursue a lady honestly knowing you have other ladies to meet on your trip. Yeah have a back up plan, but don't make it your agenda if you feel the woman you are going to meet is the right one. If it doesn't work out, you have many other options to meet ladies in Ukraine. Don't make meeting others your priority, but make sure you can arrange to meet others in case your trip fails.
You don't need an agency. Also don't think because they say their english is 2-3 on a scale of 10. That's how my wife listed her english skills and we didn't have a problem communicating. Use a dictionary for difficult word, it turned out to be a lot of fun and it helped us bond even more. She met me on the sly, without the agencys knowledge and she asked me not to mention our meeting in our future correspondence via the agency. After a while we just communicated by telephone, she started english lessons that she paid for herself in the beginning and after our second meeting I told her I would pay for them. I met all her friends, her Mom and her english teacher.
Common sense will carry you a long way in this venture. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. With all the letters I received from ladies only about 12 were scammers, they have the same MO. Of the 80 I corresponded with, they fizzled out for one reason or another. Mostly because I wasn't going to jump on the next plane out of Dodge to meet them.
Just remember this, you have total control, no matter what an agency says. It's your time and your money and spend it intelligently.
The only point I would like to add to that whilst nasfan's scammers might have all had the same MO, scammers come in all different MO's.
The most common ones are the ones that are asking for money by the third letter or so but don't be fooled into thinking you are safe once you get past the fourth letter. Scammers come in all diffent shapes and sizes from the young and pretty to the old and not so pretty, some will ask for money almost immediately whilst others will write for a number of months before putting in the request for money.
There simply isn't one MO for a scammer, early signs are the one after another 'canned' letters, hints at her financial situation and/or a family illness, just always be on your guard and don't allow your guard to drop until at least you have met with her in person.
Meanwhile tinkerbell,
Have you tried contacting your local airport 'lost luggage' department, perhaps someone ordered a bride thru mail order that they didn't collect and she might still be sitting there getting covered in dust.
I've just had a look on www.amazon.com for you, no brides available unfortunately, only books to read about it, perhaps you'll have to do it the hard way and travel to FSU and pick one up in an hour or so.
lol I have alot of freinds on car forums , and one of them just happens to speak russian . IM going to have him
try that site beemer was raving about . mamba or some shit i think its called
I want my girl with a CLean title , low or no mileage and a 200,000 mile warranty HAHA
tinkerbell,
That's the 2nd person you've accused of being paid to post here, not only has it become boring but your stupidity is showing thru.
Nobody is paid to post on this forum, there is no such thing as a mail order bride, and if you think this is unacceptable then you best look for a lady in your own neighbourhood, the choice is simple.
Tinkerbell. Are you being paid to post on this site???
You have certainly provided us with some entertainment if nothing else! Just buy yourself a plane ticket and get over there man!
guys I injured my penis doing this PE exersise call "CLAMPING" I have had blood in my urine for over a month
The doctor said it should clear in 1 month . SO beleive me i have $25 large saved up for my trip
I dont plan on spending all that money , I just wish i could go along with someone to show me around
oh SHIT ,i got 2 pm's from people that are already over there , can i trust these these guys that pm'd me?
I dont want to get jumped and robbed , cant trust nobody now a days