Just seen your post chrish......sorry to hear about the flu,I would be happy to help in whatever way I can when my lady arrives.I beleive the distance between us is about 10-12 miles,so maybe a personal meet might help more??........let me know ok?
cheers for that gladiator, may come in real necessary, and very soon.It is getting extremely worrying about the amount of letters my one has been receiving just lately, but then i realised that she was one of the ladies of the month, which explains it.
I think Olga said a while ago a Lady becomes a lasy of the month when she gets a alot of letters. I could be wrong though. Just cause a woman gets a lot of letters doesnt mean she reads or replies to them all.
Right. The fact that she receives lots of letters doesnt means that she reads or replies all of them. Actually every month we have ladies who get lots of messages but didnt send any responses at all!!!( i this case we call them and ask to check a mailbox or in case they do not respond just delete thier info).
As for miss WOW section-right now this page displays profiles that received biggest number of letters previous month.
Yeah, i understand all of this, it is just like we have said in previous posts though, the nearer i come to my trip over there, the more apathetic i am becoming, and nit picking about every little thing. Everything is going to be fine, i am sure. If it isn't then i'm sure fiance.com will help me find another.
yeah i suppose a quick snort might help chip,only kidding. just hate the bit whereby i build my hopes up once again and get let down. Still on the laws of averages it can't happen every time. Gladiator is proof of that.
Chrish with the trip getting close nerves are very natural......and we all tend to nit-pick about silly things.The best way to go is to follow the gut feeling,usually a ggod indicator in my experience!!!
Failing that follow chip's advice and have a glass of the fizzy stuff......:))
yeah, i was only joking about the other type of coke. Brandy or vodka might do better though. In all seriousness though,i am interested in the fact, that several women have written to me in the last couple of weeks, not a problem you might say, but all bar 1 are from thje same town as my lady, one even said that she was responding to a letter i had sent her.I have questioned this with fiance.com and they say that it is because she is with an agency, and has sent the same letter out to others. Again not a problem, i myself have an allready prepared intro letter, as do most i believe, but i was more interested in the fact that the agency were sending this out, because it does not take much to figure out that my lady must be in the same agency. If so??????????????
I suppose the thing you must be careful of chrish is that there are not too many ladies from the same agency all comparing notes so to speak!!!
Might possibly be a little uncomfy to say the least.Nothing like keeping your options open,but tread carefully.
Yeah well this comes down to life at it's best. Choices, i am on about,when i go and meet her, it might work out, but what if it doesn't? Prudence would say that it would be wise to have a back up plan, so that if things don't hit off well there are other options, i suppose this might sound like cheapskating, but it not about the cost, as i would willingly give all that i own, for the 'RIGHT' lady, it is more about the length of trip and oprganising etc. If i went out on a date with someone local, you wouldn't consider having a couple of phone numbers of other girls with you in case you were stood up, or that you found after half an hour that you were both totally unsuitable to each other. There is just the distance travelled and effort, that makes us even consider this. You also have to bear in mind that they could be friends of hers writing to me to see what reaction they get as to my sincerity, and then report that back to her. Still does this saying also apply 'all's fair in love and war'?
Chrish I agree that life is all about choices,and I DO understand your worries too.It's a hell of long way to go to find out that the chemistry is not there between you and your chosen lady.Also I have no doubt that you would spend whatever it takes to be the RIGHT lady too.The point I was trying to make is that it is entirely possible that several of your ladies friends ARE checking your sincerity.......after all we do it don't we??
Have you thought of looking up any other agencies in the city/town you are planning to visit?Quite a few do keep a catlogue of their ladies for those that do visit their offices,and at least that way you need have no fears about compromising yourself before you leave.Everybody needs to be a little devious from time to time.
No, i haver decided that i will only go and see my lady, if it doesn't work, then i will have a holiday out there, like i said if i was going out with a local on a first date then i wouldn't have spare or back up dates, i have to beleive in my own sincerity also
Well guys, I am about to cross the Atlantic Ocean to see my girl as some of you may know from what I wrote in the past. The reason I am going is for one lady. Through months of letters and phone talks and video clips back and forth I can say we are both really excited about meeting eachother. But..what if it doesnt go the way we plan? What if we don't click in person, you know what I mean? I started thinking about it more and more. So I have met some other ladies from the area I am going to just in case. Its kind of hard for me to do because I am really into just my girl. So they are good friendships for now, and they know I plan on coming. I dont want to travel that far and not have other friends I can look up in case if things dont work out for me and my lady. Maybe I'm wrong for doing that, I dont know. I kind of feel like I'm sneaking behind her back doing this, and I know it will hurt her feelings if she knew. I havent promised anything to the other girls and I dont plan to. I'm hoping that everything will work out for me with my girl. I just figure that I should have other contacts if it fails.
You know I have recently also gotten several initial letters from girls in the same city. I think this is odd. They are all from Azov. Probably the same agency. Has anyone else received these?