The following was posted on a dating blog on a PPL site.
"I'm not sure where to start this blog because I'm not sure where my relationship, with a beautiful Ukrainian girl. I have been communicating with a very special girl for over a year now and I'm not sure where I stand. From my side, I am in love with this girl as much as it is possible to love someone you know only by words. No, we have not met in real life. I offered to visit her but she told me that she wanted to come to me. I realized that her coming to me made more sense because she could learn the area where and how we will live.
I purchased her personal information from the site 6 or 7 months ago. When it was approved it contained only her name and a google email address. After a few more months I gave her my phone number and asked for her phone number. She did not respond to my request and over the next few months I repeated the request but still no reply. All this time her letters told of her love for me and how she wished to be with me. Because of this, I made a request for her phone number and told her that I wanted to talk with her and to hear her voice. Her reply was, "I have no wish to speak by phone." This came as a shock to me and a few weeks later she was telling me that she's my woman and I let the phone thing go. We have had only a few chat sessions and the chat was so slow I have had to wait 4 or 5 minutes for a reply to the question, "how are you?" I think that it is very unfair of the site to charge so much for chat when most of that time is spend waiting for a reply because the site is slow.
I began to think that it may not be the site that is slow and perhaps I was one of many that were in that chat with her. I think what I'm trying to say is I feel as if I have been played the fool. Am I wrong? I don't know. I wanted so much to believe that this was my other half that I may have been blind.
All I am looking for is the love of a good woman. Is that really to much to ask?"
My response:
When you are corresponding with a mirage, then yes you are really asking for too much.
PPL ( pay per letter):) 10 years ago I thought any man who used PPL site were idiots, and PPL would be dead soon, as there were so many ways to communicate... now... 10 year later.. Site still charge per letter, per text chat:) Man pay, keep believing in magic. Exchange one two messages, you will see right away if she is real or not, do video chat, go visit her. Do not spend months writing if you want results.
"When it was approved it contained only her name and a google email address."
If he's got her email address then he can contact her directly without the agency but probably this is just an email address the agency set up and he's never really been in contact with her.
If he's already got her email why would he go back to (paid) chat?
The best thing to do is go on Skype / Viber video and see if you're speaking to a real chick. If she refuses it's probably a scam.
Just a reminder to everyone,, , if a girl moves from a ppl site, or
even a membership site to personal email, with no resistance or is even leading the charge,, it does not mean that she isn’t a scammer! The garden variety agency scammer girl is content with the pocket change that the agency is giving her,,, the ones that want to make a killing, also want to get away from the agencies and websites. In many cases, those are by far the worst!