Hi! I am new to this looking in foreign places stuff. I see alot of the girls want kids and some that I talked to on another site wondered why I did not. Are there very many woman in the FSU that are OK with not having children and just enjoying life with a partner? What is the best way to approach the subject early on so one does not waste his or the lady's time? Thanks in advance for the help. There seems to be alot of guys on here that like helping eachother.
Ther are plenty of women in FSU countries that do not want kids,they are all over sixty.
This is how this whole concept works, men here are finding wives over there because there are not enough men that will marry and raise a family with them, to few men too many drunks. Perhaps a women with children all ready will not mind a man that does not want children. Even then if you have a pulse and marry one of these women she will want to have your child. This is what it is all about. The women over there live and breathe family values, have you tried the American chicks. Seriously you can find what you are looking for a woman 37 or older most likely with a cchild grown all ready or post an add an state not wanting to have children but I offer this instead and come up with a real dam good plan. YOU MIGHT WANT TO BUY THE BOOK! the guys will help you I am sure! this is a tough case though.
Well Wess though I may a little bit disagree with you, I agree with you in one point it all depends on the age of the woman.
zukester you will be able to find a woman who doesn't want a child maybe not that easy but you will, women differ here too. Personally I think that not a single woman from here wishes to have 4-5 children. Earlier people from here had over 10 children or more, but this is not like this any more. Women do differ. So good luck in your search:)
Ptichka you might be right, my experience is when they say they want to make the coziness at home they want to be cozy with babies, most every woman that has written to me immeadiately makes known her desire to have children but now you have me thinking I tell every one that I write I want to have another family, so I guess if that is what I am asking for that is what I will get. Still I think women under 35 want a family of children.
You have scared me with 4-5 children this is what women want, Zukester left here running ans screaming!
Zuke, I would say just ask early in conversation before you both get attached to eachother. My fiance told me a story of a girl that went to her man only to find out they couldnt have kids after he lied to her. She was very very very upset upon learning about it and when she came back to Russia I'm not sure she wanted to return for that very reason because she wants her own children. Dont break a girls heart if you cant or dont want kids, this is a very serious matter for them as I am sure it is for all women.
I thank you all for your replys. I did not run away though! I do usually tell them straight up that children do not intrest me as I can tell alot of them want them. I am 34 and never been married. I have not had any teenagers come looking for the dad they never met either. I just don't have that need for kids that some folks have. I would rather spend my time and money traveling and doing fun things with someone I care about (who won't break a hip). That was for the over 60 comment:} I'm sure it will take a while to find some but i'm guessing there are girls over there who just want someone to love them right. Thanks.
Don't lose hope, I'm married 2 years, my wife is 26 yrs, we agreed that we would not have children for at least 5 or 6 years, I already had 2 from previous marriage, like you I wasn't that bothered about having more.
We're very happy together but now she says she is not sure if she wants to have child or not, but if she does, she says ' she will know' I've kind of warmed to the idea so I am not deterring her in any way, but she has found contentment and I guess wants to keep things as they are.
Its true you will find different women in all places, its not possible to generalise, although agreed most want to raise kids, I have to say I find my wife not really different to other women I know in the UK, ok she has accent, but in other ways she is just the same, I don't really feel I married someone from a different culture, but maybe thats not hat some people look for.
hey Zuke hang in there and be patient the right girl is right here under your nose, and you will find her Mom was right there are plenty of fish in the sea and believe me there is a star fuis out there for you too. you might post something like what you just wrote here in this thread.
I am 34 and have never been married. I just don't have that need for kids that some people have. I would rather spend my time and money traveling and doing fun things with someone whose time and companionship I enjoy. However, never having been married who knows what the future will bring. Perhaps with the right women and loving wife, I may find that desire to nurture a child or two with a woman who shares my love!
I'm just trying something out here but this says don't pressur me about kids right now we can talk about it later and does not close the door today, this could work, use the languge you prefer.
A question for Olga, has Nadya started back to work?.....She has been nothing but helpful with me and my fiance. I would just like to get her a message to say I hope she had a good holiday and thanks so much for all her help....