Chrish, better to find out now, then to find out after your vows. Lemme ask you this, do you write just 1 girl at a time? If so, why put all your eggs in 1 basket? When I first started, I wrote to everyone that fit my criteria (BTW 18-32, less than 140 lbs, reasonably attractive)and I would up sending out over 100 letters. Between scammers, ladies that found someone already, and those that were less fun than watching grass grow, I correspond with 3 on a regular basis. I plan on meeting all 3, and seeing how it goes from there. Get the VIP membership, you can write to how many people you want, and you will be presented with many more options. This is the most important step in your life, I know you are a smart guy and will make the right decision! Don't let past failures get you down! Go to the pub, have an ale, and toast to the good times you and that perfect woman will share in the future!
When i started to communicate with this one, yes i was writingf to others, but one by one due to a variety of reasons, thet have all gone by the wayside, just didn't seem right to write to others, i know that makes me the worlds number 1 wuss, but that is the way i am, i came here and will go anywhere necessary to find myself the perfect partner, but to me sincerity is paramount, not only from the lady to me but me to her aswell.However in the last couple of days i have 1st lettered a couple, when i realised the situation,, and have done about 20 more today, chris h is bouncing back, i will get a lady somewhere, somehow and soon.
Thats the attitude Chrish. Keep a positive outlook and you will have success. This I truly believe. Its worked for me my whole life and I cant see why doing this would be any different
Yes i'm back even better than before lol:) But it's a learning curve i suppose, and it may seem as if i'm back at the foot of the mountain, but i've got better equipment now.
No, you are not a wuss! If a lasy asks do I correspond with others, I am honest and say yes. If any ladty took offense to that, and wanted me to be exclusive, i would be, just hasnt come up yet
My experience is that most of the ladies expect us to write to others. Honesty counts big time, as does sincerity. Those that have been to the FSU can back me up, when you finally go to meet your girl great looking women will be all around you. Those women seeking husbands from abroad are only a small fraction of the female population.
We really cannot be sure of our choices until we meet face to face. Also, many of us only write and never go to meet our ladies. Actions speak louder than words. Often times these ladies will write several of us, but will end up with the first guy who has the wherewithal (financial and otherwise) to actually go and meet them.
These ladies are used to being promised the world and having nothing delivered. After all, there are plenty of local guys to waste their time so why bother with one of us who will do the same thing? Be different. Going to Russia, the Ukraine, Belarus et al is the best thing you can do if you are really serious about a foreign wife.
What price happiness? The SAS have it right, "He who dares, wins."
Sorry , she was forget tell you end of this proverb ;)))
He who does not take a risk does not drink Champaign , but who risking , that doesn’t drink even a beer ;)))))))))))))))))))
I did Chippie, she's very clear actually.
You see, you apparently missed more than one point. Don't take everything so serious, especially when you see this: :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) !
k, I'm sure you at least recognize a joke when you see it? ;-))
It is more understanding ? ;)
Who does not risk, that does not drink some champagne but who risks, that does not drink even beer.
Not because , he don’t like beer - because he lose all his money ( good , if only money ) and cannot buy beer for himself.
And, at all. go to girl, which you don’t know absolutely, even in letters ( some don’t know even phone or real address ) - it isn’t risk. It is escapade, shady enterprise. ( I don’t know , which word better ). escapade - unscrupulous, risky, it is doubtful on honesty put, undertaken counting upon casual success.
i have had several letters as i'm sure many others have, stating that the general populus of russian males are obssesed with drinking and gambling, i can see why.
And why ?
And we have bears at streets , you wasn’t know ?
And people dress valenki and wear bast shoes. And there aren’t any TV or computers.
And , if serious, if human talk , that all in his country is bad, he will feel himself bad at any country. If girl write , that she don’t know even one normal man , which don’t drink – think , what a girl she is.
it is only the same as we are, the women in this country, have forgotten the importance of family life,(in general) doesn't mean that there aren't any who do, just that i have got fed up of looking here.
Good women are everywhere. Simply we live in a mad time. want to be and here, and there in the same moment , and everywhere is very interesting. ;))
I sure, that a lot of woman put family in a first place. But some men make a mistake , when they talk - you must be at home, and family must be one and only means of life for you.
Some don’t talk with this words, but think so, and feel himself wound, if woman have and family , and good work , and if she wasn’t cook he a dinner one day ;))
But , at big count, ( and , I think , man will be agree with me ), it is very sweet, to have house- wife, but with time she making not so interesting.
But everyone look for that, what he need. One need in a *brood-hen* or * my second mummy *. And another look for interesting clever interesting woman, with which possible to talk, and which can understand and help.
It don’t means, that he is bad in family – simply , after family in first place, she have something at second too.
I think i understand all that just about, i have no need for a housewife, as i have a cleaner allready. I have no need for a mother figure as my natural mother mithers me to death, I do want children, i do not deny it, but that is not the only reason that i want a partner, i want someone on this planet just to always be here for me, and to live as a family unit, i would take this without the options of having children, but whilst i have neither i might as well go for both.