- Did you ask her about Russian/local men?
- Ditto about her ex?
She seems to be well off / better than average judging by various remarks, and this letter could well be a cincere one - in fact I hope that for you. But maybe, no offense, I just may point out that your name is used at the 'beginning' of every part - letter, addendum 1 and addendum 2. That, Izi, I think, hunch, 'feel', is strange or could be strange, especially then when very good English is used throughout.
But please prove me wrong, marry her and enjoy the rest of your life in a coma :)))
Steve, How can you dump this woman who loves you so dearly? What kind of a man are you? :o) As you know, I am marrying a woman from Moldova who has a child but there is no problem because......
1. Father disappeared before birth of child
2. Most importantly, she never married the father
Yes I agree, you will need a better answer than the one she is giving you but I would be more worried about her screwing you into a coma too quickly without getting to know you better
If, during the time I read & write, you post like a gattling gun then surely the above will look out of sinc.
What I meant is, her letter could well be a 'broadcast' to various men, that's all - nothing wrong with templates, only when they're personal, and this one is.
Worried? Really? Tell someone who cares Mate.
So you need to get to know her first before hitting that intensive care eh?
Sorry, nobody will believe you here - actually, not sorry at all, you're talking nonsense and you know it! :)
Firstly I never mentioned local men even once, she did that.
Asking about the ex I have already covered.
How do you figure she is well off?
Sincere? You must be joking. I don't know this woman. I have never met her I have written virtually nothing to her. She knows very little about me.
Regarding my name. Firstly most people on the forum know my real name is Steve (my last name is McQueen I made a couple of movies and faked my own death). Secondly that letter has all the earmarks of a canned email that has been personalized.
The most important thng here though is has been mentioned so many times before I have choices. I don't have to take a chance.
Right now, today, Sunday, I received a letter from a woman much better looking than this one who wrote to me a short informative email as honest as the day is long. Why struggle? I have at least 5 women now much more realistic than this one.
This ones profile was somewhat similar. She is waiting for her Zorro to appear and unmask himself.
Pleeeasse !!!! Give me a break. She is in a little fantasy land at best and at worst she is a scammer. More trouble than it is worth thank you.
I have not forgotten the Beggars Opera stuff and I think I will go 'fishing' again later today. You know some of their stuff has been re-released TD, I checked.
How does TD figure she is well off??? It was simply the word "Sony Playstation". Td has been saving up for one of those nearly a year now and only needs a few months more of washing his "Mum's" dishes to get that.
I just got off the phone with the new chick Elena. The Moscovite with the most. I swear to God this woman made this so easy for me I can not believe it.
It was a bit like a laundry list. I was able to tackle question after question and get the right answer each time. Zero bullshit and extremely nice to boot with good English.
Ok so what is the big deal? Once again in keeping with the theme of this thread I will share. Yes share, please share. Ok I will.
Hi my name is Izi and I am an FSU skirt chaser.
Ok enough already what the hell am I talking about?
Are you ready to come to America? tick it off.
Do you know where your ex is? tick it off.
Can you get permission from the father? Already got it tick it off.
What will your mother do when you go? tick it off.
What work would you do? tick it off.
It just went on and on for 2 hours. I think I have met my dream woman. I am seriously contemplating dropping all the other members of my harem and concentrating on her.
Develop a list of questions and what is important to you and get them right out there at the very beginning. If she won't answer them tell her to piss off. You can get romantic later.
If things go well you should be able to do the work of a month in one session. I just did. I am frigging impressed. She is too apparently.
Whoaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!! Izi my friend! Slow down! Take it easy! Yes concentrate on her but don't quite sell the farm yet. Just an example.I had whittled down my list to two ladies both had qualities that I liked and admired very much. Both where sweet and very nice until one instance. I forgot to do something for one of them and I got such a scathing letter from her, I just said, damn I don't need this crap, hell I haven't even met this woman yet and she is blowing me shit. A side of this lady never came out until then. Well scratch her from the list and I concentrated on Larissa. Which by a funny happening, I forgot to do something for her, her response was well you live far away and you have a life to tend to there it must have just slipped your mind. Being the clever Lady she is, the reverse psychology made me feel like shit.One thing I like about Ukrainian women that you won't see here. Is when they do get pissed it's for the moment and is never thrown back up in your face like the women here. Ditto and I had a conversation on the phone about this, he asked me the same thing, his lady doesn't throw crap back in his face.
I like this quality, get pissed state your case and move on! Larissa hasn't remotely brought it up. So my friend subscribe to Toads "Due Diligence" philosophy, but don't pull the trigger took quick! Keep Marina in the back of your mind, you don't know how she dances until the music starts.
No, no can't do it. I feel the same way as you Nas. Only this evening I got 2 letters from another woman who is also very sensible. then there is the devil in the blue dress. God what legs. No we are not done yet. I did the pull the trigger thing by using my intuition and look what happened last time. This just looks promising and I got excited. Now I have to change underwear, excuse me.
I try my best. It is a dirty ugly job but someone has to do it.
I have at last count about 5 women on the go. 1 I decided to lose today after that ridiculous letter. I swear if I ever get called a knight again......
I shall definitely crown her.
Anyway everything under control. Just need to focus. One thing is for sure no more wmen I cannot handle it. It is going to be a bitch figuring this all out. these women I am in touch wth are all teh real thing. It would be heartbreaking to lose one of them. However I really lean towards this Moscow lady. She is front runner right now.
The thing is this. I am so glad that things didn't work out with Marina. I think God was watching over me. It was wrong. Just wrong. Now I am talking to other women and I find that my instinct was correct. Marina had problems. They are accepting of the fact that I speak to other women and I encourage them to look at other men. I want to be sure this time.
I can do this.
And of course if we can work a 3 way thing out I am there. I have never seen that before and a little bipolarism never hurt anybody :))
Time for another one in the world according to Izi saga. Where is frigging NOR when you need him?
Emails vs Socials.
Remember this is only my view and I have never been to a social. SD and OKM you have probably tossed up the whole shall I go on a tour or email my way in. This is a great debate and there is no right answer. Some here swear by tours others think that it is better to find one special woman, develop a backup plan and freelance it. I think they are both great. However straight off I must say that going with AFA for example is expensive. If you book your own flight and get an apartment especially with help from this forum it will be cheaper. However if you want convienience a package trip is for you. Rebt the movie "Two Brothers and A Wife". It actiually shows a real tour with real guys going to St Petersburg with A Foreign Affair. The real website is shown and everything else was cooperated by AFA. Visit there website for more details. It is a great movie very funny and instructional in many ways.
In converstaions I have had with numerous women the message comes over loud and clear. They don't like socials. They are deemed to be full of prostitutes and demeaning. This is patently not true. Although the women really are kid of treated a bit off I think.
Personally I think it is better to write to one special lady and then go to see her. Just don't do the things I did. Make sure you do not stay with her. She has you captured then. That is the whole point. These women are very jealous and once they have your undivided attention they will not want to let you wander off. This is very flattering and I was affected by this. Wow me??
Yeah you and if you are not careful you will be sorry. I was. Picture this. You don't really know where you are, you don't speak Russian, if you go in the winter you will be up to your moustache in snow and ice and where the hell would you get a taxi anyway? Also if you suddenly book into a hotel they will all start booking vacations in Hawaii - ON YOU!! $200 a night is not unusual.
Make sure you have a backup plan. The best example of this was Freebird. He struck out badly and then proceded to have the time of his life because he was tipped the wink about an agency through this forum.
FSU women jealous of their man... hmmm interesting, I think mine is. I'm relaxing on the couch the other night watching the tube and I catch my wife just staring at me with those sexy blue eyes. I said what is it?? She just looks and says, your myyyyyy property.. of course I feel the same for her. Never had a woman say it like that in the past. Actually it was kind of a turn on the way she said it with that look, lol
Screw the social do the one on one meeting with a lady you can get to know first, maybe with a backup just in case >=)
I think that one has to be careful not to let the negative stories that one hears about being scammed from keeping one from going and seeing your potential mate. The negativity that I picked up from this site and other sites made me more suspicious then I might have been. The question is where do you draw the line?