Why Western men seek FSU women
I see this subject in many posts and replies but it deserves its own thread in my opinion. I didn’t go searching the old posts so maybe this is a repeat subject but here’s my answer to the question “Why is it you western men seek Russian women?”
Why indeed! Well here’s my list. It includes a few reasons that I do not share, but I have read enough posts at other forums to know other real common reasons beyond my own exist.
Concerning the statements below about American women: this is intended to be my opinion of general averages and common things. Certainly there are exceptions to everything I state here so don’t blast badly.
1. Family values.
Seen this one listed 10,000 times by men listing what they want and woman listing what they offer. To the western man this can mean a large variety of things. To some men it means barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen. To others including myself it simply means that we want a partner who places the family foremost in priorities regardless of her working or not and not simply that she’s a maid and a cook. To be clear I am not seeking a cook. I do however note that it is refreshing to see this kind of caring offer made without thought of it being some sort of demeaning crime to her. You know women cooked meals for their husbands for thousands of years and never considered it something bad. This is but one example of an attitude my generation in the USA has been without for a long time. Since my grandfather lived in fact.
2. Caring, loyal and devoted partner.
In the USA this isn’t always what we find in a mate (male or female). In the beginning of course all things are magical when two people connect. Down the road the devotion part gets fuzzy and it’s too easy to just walk away. I’m not saying that life will be a fairytale and that Russian women have no faults. But from what I’ve read it appears to my ignorant, untrained brain that the ones who marry a guy who treats them right stick with him. The ones divorced mostly claim it is due to alcoholism or the fact that Russian men are not particularly faithful on the whole. I don’t know this to be true but I see the theme said over and over so there must be something to it. The vows “for better or for worse” mean nothing to most Americans (men too I’ll admit).
3. Physical beauty
lets be honest here. Physical appearance and attraction matter. I agree it shouldn’t be the sole reason for a match but if you say it doesn’t matter at all you are a liar to yourself and are trying to sound noble to others. American women, on the average mind you, are overweight. There’s plenty who are not of course, but comparatively on the average it is a fact. Yes, so are we American men. But the subject focus of this post is why we men seek Russian woman. Look through any website with photos of real Russian woman seeking partners and you see page after page after page of beautiful, thin, healthy, attractive women. I don’t just mean the 20 year old models either. If I lined up 1000 American women I picked at random from the phonebook and 1000 random FSU women you want to bet me which group outweighs the other? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder of course but it seems blatantly obvious that RW are on the whole better looking overall than American women, as a total group at least. I am being blunt here. Please do not think due to this one item I think women should be judged like cattle. Read what I said for what it means within the subject of the post. Looks matter in the beginning. Naturally there must be more.
4. Non-materialistic attitude
I speak past the scammers here and just about sincere Russian women.
After many exchanges of ideals and questions between Russian women I have come to the conclusion that the myth that all Russian women secretly only want a ticket to a better lifestyle or a green card etc. is utter Crap. I have been on this earth courting women for many years and have never in my life had so many conversations that did NOT involve money, finances, things, cars, “how big is your house?” and “will you get me that?” It is so refreshing to just exchange ideas and opinions without constantly discussing material things. If I don’t bring it up it never comes up in a conversation, ever. Exchange 20 emails with an American woman and you will be talking about “things” very quickly. Likely in the first 2 emails. Have a conversation and see how fast your job title is asked for. The Russian woman I talk to has never asked me what I earn, what my home is like, if I HAVE a car, much less what kind of car, or anything of the sort. Granted there is always the danger of being fooled here, but if your eyes are wide open you should smell a meal ticket abroad approach a mile away.
This is part-1 See part-2 to read the entire post.....
I think you have hit the nail on the head with your descriptions here codered. I can say that being from Canada that many (not all) of the women have similar attitudes to those of their US counterparts. Unlike the women from the FSU. All I can say is that I should have corresponded with a RW much sooner in life.
Hi, I'm actually a Russian woman living in the US. I'm 27 and have been here since the age of 15. I appreciate all the nice things that people on this forum have said about Russian women, although, as some of the authors have themselves pointed out, these generalizations are certainly not absolute. To be fair, there are many nice values in the American culture, too, that I personally really appreciate. I'd like to think that I combine the best of both the Russian and American cultures, or at least I strive to :-) The reason I'm writing here is that I'm interested in finding a man who speaks Russian and someone I could share various aspects of the Russian culture with. If you're such a person and you're interested in getting to know me, if you're single and between 23 and 35 years old, please contact me at email@example.com
Lera, you know you can post your profile on this website I believe. I have come across a few profiles where the girls are in the USA. I hope my girl will be able to adjust to the US as well as you have. Thanks for your insight as I find a Russian girls point of view very valuable to know. Always feel free to leave a comment here, I'm sure many of the other guys will agree with me.
I CANNOT BELIEVE THE C-R-A-P I AM READING HERE AND EVERYWHERE ABOUT THE ALTRUISTIC NATURE OF RUSSIAN WOMEN. THEY ARE JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN. ALL THEY WANT IS SECURITY AND AS SOON AS THEY HAVE THAT ALL THEY WANT IS MORE ENTERTAINMENT. SO YOU FEATHER THEIR NEST ONLY TO HAVE THEM TELL YOU THWY ARE BORED WITH YOUR SECURITY AND WANT SOMETHING MORE. MOST OLDER MEN NEED THEIR HEASDS EXAMINING TO ALLOW RAMPANT RUSSIAN WOMEN INTO THEIR LIVES - WHO ARE NO DIFFERENT THAN ANY OTHER WOMEN - THEY ONLY WANT MEN FOR WHAT THEY CAN GET - PERIOD!!! IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT RUSSIAN WOMEN ONLY WANT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY - YOU ARE DREAMING!!!!
Each to his own opinion,however if you do you homework you will find the stats prove you very wrong.By the nature of your post you show a complete ignorance of Russian culture.Read and learn........THEN SHOUT!
CG If you think russian women are the same as american woman then why are you a member? I am not saying anything against you but maybe you met the wrong girl on here most of us have a woman on here and all agree at how much more they have values. my girl never asked for a damn thing except will I come and see her.She has been great.Yes there are scammers but you can figure them out pretty fast for the most part.Im sorry bro but my attitude is F*&$ american women and the sad thing is I am american.
CG you wake up and realize that we aint buying your bullshit. WE know what can happen! So just get with the program and accept you aint changing a dam thing. You probably just another fatass american or uk chick that cant handle what reality is becoming for more and more western men. So get back into your little bubble world and go away, TROLL. hehehaha
And if you want to continue with the crap coming out of your mouth, please continue, because we all here will be more than happy to screw with you back!! =P
TAKE YOUR ADVISE AND SHOVE IT RIGHT UP YOUR ASS
Like we don't know what were getting into....puhleaseeeee!! LOL
and by the way RUSSIAN WOMEN ARE different. If you cant realize it your definitly a chick, or your some old dude that got screeeeewed.
I agree friend worthless.
You cant be 50 and think some young russian is gonna
bang ya into shape-take care in what you do with these women and you will see a better promise.
CG do you have a basic membership? LOL
I am so god damn worried about asking my girl to marry me that this negative post shit is crazy.Wish me luck.I hope she says yes
Yes yes, all that stuff. Let me tell you something right now. Russian women seek love, devotion, family etc etc.But remeber this. If you do not provide her with the things she wants, she is not bound by contract to stay with you. They are certainly materialistic, maybe more so than western woman becuase if they wanted to live in shit and have no life, they can stay in Russia. Some are gold diggers some are not, but you must take care of them, because the guy down the street thinks she is beautiful as well and she knows it. First find one that you realy do think loves you. Second, make sure you know what she wants and take that into consideration. Thirdly only bring her her if you have what she wants. All the Russian women I know think that there husbands are hiding money from them. Why? because before they came here they thought we had plenty of money to lay around like we did in Russia. Something to consider. If she seems impressed by all the gifts and dinners you lay on, make sure she understands that you are an holidays living a little. Not living as you always do.
You are very thrifty, I think. It's good in a way but this trait is very characteristic of most of Russian women. Everything depends on her family upbringing. Unlike American women Russian women are still raised the traditional roles of men and women in marriage, not to see those roles as a "threat" to their self-image. The fall of the Soviet Union has created circumstances in Russia and Ukraine that have caused many men to reject these traditional roles in the family life. In a strage way it is almost a mirror image of the way many American women have rejected their traditional roles in the family.
Moreover Russai and Ukraine are experiencing economic problems that are just as harsh, more widespread and hve lasted more than The Great Depression. The vast majority of Russian women want to find a decent husband. No woman wants to spend her life playing nursemaid to a man who feels beaten down and raising her children in a atmosphere of hopelessness.
I hope this gives you just a little insight into the world Russial women live in and the reasons they are looking for American husbands.
Have a good day!
"....Some reports have surfaced about secret FBI files that have just been DEclassified. Among them there are a few very interesting ones allegedly exposing MARTHA BURKE, from N.O.W. who seems to be in the habit of posting anti-males comments in websites devoted to help western men find FSC women who are younger, prettier and more interested in traditional family roles than their western female canine (bitches) counterparts.
Allegedly, Martha Burke uses a CG name in certain websites..."
MARRIAGE VOWS INTERPRETATION BETWEEN US AND FSC WOMEN
FSC WOMEN VERSION
For richer or for poor
In health or sickness
Until death do us apart
US/Western women version
For richer, NOT for poor
In health, NOT in sickness
Until I hire an attorney to tear you a new asshole, take the kids, the house and all your money by abusing a court system that unfairly favors women over men in the majority of cases.
These comparisons are of course pun intended and in reality it could go either way with women of any country.
However, for those of us western men who are familiar, and in so many cases, victims to the materialistic matriarchy male-emasculating guidelines of the west, seeing beautiful women from cultures who still practice traditional family roles is a gift from heaven.
We know, or should know, that FSC women come with NO guarantees of eternal happy life and devotion.
But we also know that the vast majority of western women come with a warning label that says "Marriage is the cause of all divorces" signed by the Surgeon General.
So, since real men with strength of character do not cave in to the demands of western women, it is natural that we seek our "woman chasing in the hope of finding the right one to settle down with" habits to other cultures.....
I strongly suggest you discuss your goals and expectations at length BEFORE making a committment to the best looking pair of legs from a FSC country.
Also protect your assets with the most iron-clad, hardest to break PRE-NUP contract you can get out of your lawyer.
The age of life-long romantic marriage is OVER, DONE, KAPUT, FINITO, GONE, MUERTO, DIFUNTO...get it???
What we still have in marriage is the hope for a loyal companion with whom we start in the quest of common goals, little more.