"even those to who don't have private are all free! "
It wont stay that way Jeff, eventually the agency will ask you to assist your lady, as at the moment She is paying them even if you are not, and She cannot afford it, you can. But so long as you don't get asked for about a month, then assume that its a reasonable request, also realise that your lady has been committed thus far as she has invested her own money into forming the relationship, but please please please don't be mean or greedy and help her if you really feel she is the one, or you Will very likely lose her through her not being able to continue the cost. If its gone a month and you haven't paid a dime, she has really shown her commitment to you, so dig in your pocket and stop taking a free ride at her expense :o))
Fiance.com don't pay the agencies translation fees so until you are asked assume that the girl you are writing to is paying them.
(See my comments on Tony`s "just joined the other day" topic.
yes, I found this site is the best, but Tim is right. If she is really interested in continuing her friendship with you then you have to take that first step and pay for translation for you to her and her back to you. Unless of course you are lucky enough to find one that speaks good English. With my lady, when she new I was the one for her she asked me to go with private correspondence with her (our own email address through our agency) then she had her profile deleted with this site and the agencys own website.
When she did that for me, I knew she was serious about our relationship. Its a good deal because now we can send unlimited letters and photos and video clips back and forth at NO cost to her, and for me to pay the service every month is really no big deal. For her it would be impossible.
Mine tends to just take my letter home from the agency and then work through it herself translating it. The downside is that you don't get an immediate written reply. I think there's quite a lot to be said about that. What better way to learn a new language and become immersed in the letter than doing it yourself?
Same happened with Natash and I Crash, she paid for the first month, then we rearranged the deal, I pay the agency and her profile has been down since the day we began this arrangement,
but one of the things which endeared me to Natash, is that from 1.5 weeks in I was the only guy sending her letters through fiance, her letter total only went up each time I wrote her, I knew she was sincere :o))
Del` Natash takes her letter home after it been translated, then goes back the following morning with her reply, much the same as yours but she doesnt translate herself. So I always know I wont get an answer to a question I ask tonight in her letter tomorrow, the answer will be on Monday :o))
For the uninitiated here guys....worth taking note of what Tim writes about paying the letter costs for your lady,it is very costly for her,and a very small (and quite possibly worthwile) amount for us,and that can often be the difference between success and defeat in your search.
hmmmm mine hasn't been eating!
- I'll make this suggestion in my next letter although she says she hasn't been eating because of thining about me and she wants to look her best (thin) when we meet but I wouldn't like to think that someone is eating because they're paying for agency services.
Wait until you are asked mate, until then you dont need to do anything, but soon her agency will ask and then you go from there.
It costs me about $100 a month, but when you think that if she was here I would spend that on dinner in one restaurant in one evening it puts into perspective that it is Not an expensive service, but for her to even pay for a 10th of that would severly dent her monthly salary !!!