Shaggy, If it is to late to save this one, it was by your own undoing! I, myself, would never mention any gossip to a woman that I was writing if I cared about her or her feelings. How did you expect her to react? She is gone now (and rightfully so) because you had to address her with an unproven statement. Not very smart!
that website A_M refers to is www.iwantherbutsheignoresmesoiwillreporther.sad
But a pity it is that she withdraws her profile because of this - maybe try to get her to submit another one, just with different photo's if she wants?
But morons always will exist, and it surely is not the first time that an idiot actually manages to 'delete' a girl he's crazy about.
To the shagging toad, why don't U2 go outside and have a chat there? Do you realize that absolutely nobody is interested in your clashing personalities? Each of you has the others eddress - use it.
And you BOTH are right, ok?
No I did not confront her I let her know that it was there. I told her up front that I beleived her but that she should be aware that her pictures may have been stolen from this site or another and placed on another site. I must say that I would do it for anyone thatI knew. She wrote me back that she was very upset and that she could not beleive anyone would do this. It was very frustrating. I do not think she thought I was accusing her I think she was just very hurt that someone here did. I have made every effort to find out what I can. Please understand that I was not in anyway other than acting as any friend would. You may be right but I guess to me I would rather know something like this was going on. I cannot be sorry for my actions as I would do the same again as I feel the truth is the only way to face such things. As I said in earlier post we had a very good everyday exchange of letters and though only a month I did beleive us to be very good friends. Again I cannot overstate that I did not confront her as others here have twisted the meaning of this entire thread.
I must also say how impressed I am at how many people seem to rejoice in it and are so quick to judge as if they know the situation. You are all correct there is no need to continue looking here for support in the matter.
Let's try to move out the problem to a solution and resolution.
I was here two or three days when you guys convinced me that my precious Angelika was a scammer. I went to the scammer's black list and found her photo and copies of her letters verbatim to what I had in my files. I reported her to the scamming agency again with more recent and up to date photos. I had booked mark my page to Fiance.com and every time I clicked on it a photo of a young girl appeared, she looked familiar so I went back to the blacklist and there was her photo. I then clicked on the 24/7 help line and talked privately to the administrator and she offered to investigate this girl. They removed her profile the next day. That was the first time! Perhaps instead of trying to be the hero we can use some common sense and do the right thing here, which is before we take a chance to black list some one, let the people in charge handle it!
Shaggay and Toad it is ok if you are loppsided one way or the other between thinking and feeling, remember tolerence and acceptance! You both are very important to the overall flow of the forum.
Let's try to move out the problem to a solution and resolution.
I was here two or three days when you guys convinced me that my precious Angelika was a scammer. I went to the scammer's black list and found her photo and copies of her letters verbatim to what I had in my files. I reported her to the scamming agency again with more recent and up to date photos. I had booked mark my page to Fiance.com and every time I clicked on it a photo of a young girl appeared, she looked familiar so I went back to the blacklist and there was her photo. I then clicked on the 24/7 help line and talked privately to the administrator and she offered to investigate this girl. They removed her profile the next day. That was the first time! Perhaps instead of trying to be the hero we can use some common sense and do the right thing here, which is before we take a chance to black list some one, let the people in charge handle it!
Shaggay and Toad it is ok if you are loppsided one way or the other between thinking and feeling, remember tolerence and acceptance! You both are very important to the overall flow of the forum.
Not to step on toes but perhaps the administrator can yank the thread, olegnay did not handle that correctly he should have deleted austraila_mans thread and wrote a direct e-mail to him from his member e-mail. I am surprised olegnay is still here after that blistering response to the character of Fiance.com.
Good one Aussie man, and to think we share nationality. I have shown my distaste for people who post girls numbers here without any proof before. And to think that some of the little things I have posted before and have been deleted is a joke. So much for moderating, what a joke. I was writen a letter to for getting up sanch abnd was deleted, hardly harmfull compared to what you have let remain on this thead. Thuis place is becoming a joke and I am tired of people sticking up for Olegnay when I consider that all this person dose not have the skills or judgement to do this job and I will make no apoligies for that statement
I do apologize as it is not normally my nature to act as I have in this thread. I was angry and toad pushed my buttons. I apologize to him and the rest of you.
Now hold hands and play nicely. Or something like that.
Shag you seem like a nice sensitive guy. That can be tough. Don't take Toad too seriously. It is easy to be offended by someone who is a professional pisstaker. Think of it as like a comedy show. It is frigging guaranteed that if you sit close to the stage the monkey up there will pick on you. Although it is super difficult, one has to join in with the laughter or go home feeling miserable.
If it is any consolation, I sympathise. I respect your feelings and understand the lost opportunity thing. Let's face it my whole bloody life is one giant missed opportunity. That is why I try to take it with a pinch of salt.
Word of warning about Brits and Aussies. They don't pull punches, ascerbic doesn't cover it ! It is a national pastime. In America things are a bit more laid back. Those folks tell you exactly how they feel, I know I am one of them and do it too. :) Personally I prefer it, but then I give as good as I get.
Did some bastard mention religion?
Can I have a codeine?
Where is the vodka?
And yes, I would like a Ukrainian now please with everything on it. Thank you.
Like water off a ducks back I am happy in the same pants I got sad in. My Oprah moment is over. I just was not in the mood at the time. Nothing wrong with a jab in the ribs now and then but it should at least have some fact to it.
We asked her today if she wants to put back her profile. She said no. she is upset and doesn't want to hear about it. Manager of her agency says that she is very educated lady from upper class family. These talks about her doing porn and scumming were very offensive. She even cried.
Some men were not nice to her. after she had declined them they started to threaten her and to say that she is a scammer. she didn't pay attention on that. But now when everybody is discussing her on the Internet she doesn't want it. She is young and decent.
So she wants to leave. She has sent letters with her private contacts to several men with whom she wants to continue corresponding. All the rest please don't bother her.