Hey there my friend Buckeyeman, you should have more confidence in dear sweet Olga she is much more intelligent than you are giving her credit for my friend. She will immeadiatley see you are thowing gas on a raging out of control three alarm fire, please be extremely careful of this back draft, obviously you have retrieved your asbestos suit from the cleaners-- your actions speak volumes.
Wes, I may have an asbestos suit, but you obviously have asbestos on the brain!! Did you used to work in an old factory or what?? LOL. Just kidding....hehe
If I didnt know you well enough, I would come down to FLA and kick your butt!!
Nahh, I have seen your profile, old man...wouldnt take much!! HHHAHAHAHAHA
OK, enough of this sh*t! I hate it when people change the theme of the thread...Wes, talk to you tonight probably, via 'you know what'!!
P.S> how goes it with Moldova babe?
They do exist. And it is a good idea to bring the question up reasonably early in the communication. Or in the Profile.
(and, by the way, strictly speaking, there are TWO questions: The children he may already have, and the idea of her giving birth to 'their' children...)
ptichka- from what i can see, and i am amounst it at the moment and from seeing some girls post her. Any woman in fsu that do not want children that do exist would not so much desire to leave there there families and friends if they were not going to make a family. I think these woman exist of coarse but are not redily avaiable to forieners
ID- I'm sure if to make a very careful search then it's possible to find women who don't want children but still look for their love. Or do you think that women who don't want to have children, don't want to love and to be loved by a man??? I would even say that such women would more want to live in another country, because here if a woman didn't give birth to at least one child up to the age of 30, the majority of people would think that there is something really bad with her...
"...because here if a woman didn't give birth to at least one child up to the age of 30, the majority of people would think that there is something really bad with her..."
Interesting...
Actually, some women cannot have children, some women should not (e.g. Health Risk to woman and/or child), and some couples cannot have children...
Now to another question:
Children cost money.
Do women without children develop more expensive personal habits?
Sancho, so if a woman can't have children or should not then she has problems with health, thus something really bad is with her:)
"Do women without children develop more expensive personal habits?"..depending on what do you mean a more expensive habit to be?
There is a world of difference between telling a woman from another culture that you will NEVER want to have children or that you prefer not to have children during the first 2,3,4,5 years of the marriage.
But most women of elegible maternal age (and some well past it) seek to marry a man to build a family with children.
Some of them already have them, which presents a completely reverse scenario.
How about finding a woman with kid(s) over 12 years old to do the family thing with her for the first few years?
The brats will be out of the house in a few years and you will have the rest of your life to enjoy each other alone.
There is no perfect solution, but you have several options.
"...The brats will be out of the house in a few years and you will have the rest of your life to enjoy each other alone. ..."
And, perhaps not. Some 'Kids' stay home to they have finished their PhD and built up a career...
-or move out, then come home again after their divorce...
You can never be sure of anything these days...
"..."Do women without children develop more expensive personal habits?"..depending on what do you mean a more expensive habit to be?. ..."
Two women, same age, similar work and income. One with, one without a child/children. Will the one without children generally get the habit of spending more money on clothes, travels, parties, etc. ?
-Habits she might find it hard to give up again when she later gets a family!
Hello All! I have found A couple already! I do have it in my profile and I also state it in the first correspondence. I have met a nice young lady who says that if she finds real love that she could take it or leave it when it comes to children. Thanks for all the advice.
Zuke
Oh, and by the way: In some countries vasectomies are used when 'they' think they have kids enough.
There will from time to time be divorced men and widowers who want to re-marry, but cannot have children...
zukester it's nice to know that you met girls that have the same ideas;) good luck:)
Sancho, I'm not sure about habits, have to think more. But once my mom's friend told, she was 29 years old, never married and never lived with a man, and she told "I can't imagine myself now washing the socks of my husband, washing his clothes...I would want him to do that. I got used to spending more time for myself, and I would want this situation to continue"...so according to this woman, she got used to some way of life, and she can't imagine herself changing it greatly. She was thinking about living with a man, or getting married, but she wasn't able to think that she will have to do everything for him!!! She wanted him to do things for himself...which I think is a correct thing, when a woman is not to do all the things about the house alone...a husband should help!
Sancho,
In the US the vast majority of children who do not leave the house are exceptions, not the rule.
The society values in this country teach teenagers to take jobs to start developing work ethics earlier than most other countries.
Therefore the sense of independence grows and wanting to do things on their own also develop early.
My children know that if they want to drive, for instance, they must work to earn gas money. If they want fashionable clothing, the must buy it themselves, etc etc etc.
Generally, children leave the home during or immediately after college to start their own lives.