WS: "From the beginning she is trying to lure you with sex. " I got that. The post was a little "tongue in cheek". This girl is a caricature of the scheming FSU woman. I would be stark raving crazy to try to date her.
LR: "I’m not sure how ballroom dancing will help.." Having a reason besides getting laid to go anywhere is always good. Having a reason to accomplish my dance goal and meet fit Ukrainian women sharing my passion outside of the dating thing is good. If they are in my age target, great. If not they may have divorced mothers or aunts or other friends who are.
"One of the "miss wow" suddenly had her profile removed today from this site after she wrote to me earlier today. I had several contact profiles removed after they sent me some messages. Nothing unusual in the messages, just how are you and mundane comments. Maybe it's my body odor?"
I do not know in this site but the same happens to me because by the time I have had a few messages from a girl, the site has investigated her activity and removed her. This can be because the girl had already started asking for money from other men or they relaised that she had been sending her email address to several men or they had already received enough complaints for them to remove her.
He/she was only biding her time with you.
on this site they send e-mails to girls where they say that if we won't answer to guys' messages they will delete our profiles. So if you wrote your email address to a girl, she starts to write you to your email and don't answer on the site... Maybe that's why they delete them?
Moya is right about this website and probably many others. I remember a girl telling me that she had no choice but to reply to all letters. It’s more important to the agencies and websites,,, to make all male members feel like they have a chance,,,, than it is to help a couple move towards marriage.
Many might think the worst is a girl not saying: Yes! But in reality,, it’s her not saying: No, that is worse.
TomZ, girl can answer that she doesn't interest in you. But she has to answer something.They don't force the girl to chat with a guy she's not interested in.
I man not sure if it is unfair for the site to tell the ladies that they must answer to some (or all?) messages by men. Maybe that is one reason the girls go free in these websites and the men have to buy the gold or platinum or whatever memberships.
Then there is what I have complained about in the past. Before joining a site men take a look at the pages of girls. If they see lots that they like, they pay for their membership, then write to them and get no answers; that means they have just paid for a site where half of more of the profiles are inactive and have been abandoned for months.
Some sites show you when the girls were last active in the site but, in many cases, that is only after you joined the site.
The best thing that these sites can do for the men (I guess for the women too) is to clean up their data bases of time wasters, like women who added their profile then disappered.
"The best thing that these sites can do for the men (I guess for the women too) is to clean up their data bases of time wasters, like women who added their profile then disappered."
While you're at it moya, have them get rid of the scammers and the ugly ones.
This site says that you can reject a message from another person if you wish. I do not think it has to do with money requests or "unsociable" behavior nor private email ( I have not given out my personal email address on this site). I did ask the customer service on this site right after the profile disappeared for two profiles. On both occasions, the response was the lady removed her profile (and not for other reasons). One lady removed her profile and sent a good bye message for each unanswered message in her inbox that said she was leaving and hoped to meet again later.
I think that many of the profiles are placed by agencies and not by the individual, so the removal may be under the agency control. It might be that some of the profiles are not "bringing in the bacon" enough for the agency, so they then remove them. However, that does not explain the thousands of inactive profiles of agency girls that still remain on this site.
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I just noticed something odd recently on this site. A "miss wow" that I corresponded with had her profile removed (the customer service on this site said that the lady removed the profile). Then a few days ago, the same profile is resurrected again and is no longer a "miss wow". I guess if you remove your profile, you have to register all over again?
" However, that does not explain the thousands of inactive profiles of agency girls that still remain on this site"
Well, clearly these profiles are there to make up the numbers. Most agencies boast thousands of members whose thumbnails they let you see when they are trying to convince you to join.
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"I think that many of the profiles are placed by agencies and not by the individual, so the removal may be under the agency control"
Yes of course; I have told some girls about their profiles appearing in other websites and the girls swear they did not put the profiles there themselves.
Interesting discussion about forced responses. What I get is:
1. Agencies might write on behalf of their ladies.
2. If I respond, the lady may have a soft obligation to respond to me.
3. The lady is not allowed to tell me if she did not in fact write to me. I explicitly asked a few of the agency wrote on their behalf.
4. I have reached an understanding with some of the ridiculously young ladies who write to me. Nothing is going to happen. Yet every few days a few of them ping me out of the blue. Sometimes multiple times. I assume they also get some incentive to generate mindless traffic. I know at least one of them is a pure chat bunny.
In one evening, I got 19 invitations from Zhitomir. Most of the profiles were realistic and the ladies were generally looking for someone younger than me.
I just received three messages from three profiles on this site that seem to convey the same message (what is true love?) all within a few minutes of each other! It seems that some "outside" correspondent is behind some of the profiles.
I also have one profile that essentially said "not interested" to me a few weeks ago and just now sent me a message saying that if am I ready to begin a relationship with her???? Huh? Did she lose her train of thought?
I got no invitations from Zhitomir area. Most of mine are from the Nikolaev and Simferopol areas.
I have just one profile that actually sends me email to my personal account. But her English is limited and she prefers to use the dating site instead. But this one appears to be a dead end.