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	Pete's Blog - FSU Dating Advice (mostly!) > advice for anyone starting out advice for anyone starting out i saw this post from Dunromin today and am posting it here so it doesn't get lost... good advice for anyone starting out looking for a girl in the FSU...     A few simple points on how it works for starters posted on 08.12.2008 5:29:07 http://forum.fiance.com/forum2.asp?Main=ShowTopic&topicid=4258&page=2    1)Very often men become interested in Russian (Or FSU) women as a result of receiving letter by email. Letters from people they have never written to or even thought of. These are almost always letters from scammers who will ultimately (If you send the right signals) attempt to scam you for money in some form or another. 2)Young Russian women are NOT desperate and only a few young Russian Women are interested in older men. Of those few, only a few are interested for the right reasons and quite a number of them are seeking financial benefit. 3)Usually, Russian Women will not be interested in travelling to your country to meet with you. Scammers will play this card right up until you send them money for the ticket and then disappear. 4)There is many and varied internet sources telling you that there is hundreds of thousands of Russian Women who can’t find a husband because there is so many more women than men in Russia. This is nonsense. It may be true in some selected locations but official Russian demographic figures were published during 2006 and in the marriageable groups, the numbers of men vs women are so near to 50/50 it wasn’t worth further discussion. 5)If you want to find a Russian (Or other FSU country) wife, you will travel there to meet her. Most likely you will travel there several times. A Russian Woman who is worth courting as a potential wife will be a well educated and articulate human being. She will NOT simply be a stay at home sex/baby machine, nor will she simply be a ornament to carry on your arm so your friends can admire your international conquest. Notwithstanding, she can do all of the above with dignity and style. You should at least digest these few points and then consider whether or not you are seriously interested in following this path. It is a wonderful path but it is not simple. Added: 01/07/2009 13:47:39 Author Comment nasfan6 Member send PM add to buddies Send: 01/09/2009 06:30:35 It's simple direct and to the point. The only problem is many guys think they know it all. They will circumvent certain rules. Thinking Nah this won't happen to me. then get burned. A scammer will always tip her cards first. Though when guys get burned they cry and whine scam! If new guys spend time just reading this forum it's loaded with information, contact names and proven people who are not scammers or have not been scammed. Almost everyone who has looked for a lady from the FSU has had a scam run on them. Some are absurdley funny others are pretty slick. Be careful of the anti-scam sites that you use, some are operated by agency owners and are there to extract money from you and a scam themselves. Rule 1 Never send money to someone you have never met. Rule 2 A serious woman will not want to go on lavish shopping trips. Rule 3 If she doesn't want you to meet family, she's either sending you a signal or ready to scam you. Rule 4 Be careful of sending money after you have met. Remember with an exception of a few cases she is going to be living in your country, So she is used to her circumstances and how to adjust through them. In the real world there is very little difference between courting a woman from Ukraine then in your own country with two big exceptions, One the distance, time and money involved and two She is going to be living in a totally foreign land with adjustment times and needs. This isn't rocket science, with plans and tips and shortcuts. There human beings with feelings and desires not unlike ours. It's just weeding through the chaff and finding the real one. Dunromin Member send PM add to buddies Send: 01/18/2009 05:41:26 Pete: Thanks for the compliment. I am a bit shocked to tell the truth. Exploding myths as relating to this pursuit is a pet hobby of mine. bgpa Member send PM add to buddies Send: 11/09/2009 22:12:18 Thank You all, this has been very insightful & informative. I am in a bit of a bind that only time will tell. I have "met" a woman that I believe to be the "real thing". It was quite by accident & via one of the not better sites (Army of Brides) It is pay to write - for translation etc...She & her son live with her mother in mother's flat. There is no internet in home but I was given the home phone # & have called. Mother answered the phone & their was quite a bit of confusion at first. "Elena" became nervous & forgot most of the English she knew. It was difficult but I did call a real house. I have "at home" photos of her, mom & son. Never a request for a single dime. But I do have to keep paying the Army of Bride toll & who knows, with their reputation I may still be getting scam replies from an interpreter. This is tough stuff. patterson12 Member send PM add to buddies Send: 07/28/2010 02:11:54 great Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Pete's Blog - FSU Dating Advice (mostly!) > advice for anyone starting out
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