It was almost instant Tim, there are exceptions, but it is like looking for a needle in a haystack in the UK. Men and women had a trade off and different roles for thousands of years, I don't think I want to adjust.:)I had a delightful time in Holland, opening doors, helping her on with her coat, the trade off, as soon as I had finished a beer, without asking, she would get another one, open it and bring it to me, straighten the collar on my jacket when I put it on, they find nothing demeaning in this and pride themselves on how ell they can take care of a man. I doth preach too much
"Men and women had a trade off and different roles for thousands of years,"
And it worked like a charm !! Until the lefty, burn your bra, lesbian, treehugging, man hating, equal rights for women brigade f*cked it up !!!
But the biggest problems of all are that they don't want "equal rights" they want to be supreme !! Unless it suits them to be subordinate to a man because it gets them something they want then they will be, until again it suits their selfishness to be equal, or supreme !! Equal when it suits them, and subordinate when it suits them too !!
" I have my own home, my own money, and I am a woman who makes her own way in the world ..... I must go now Sue, I have a sucker on a string who is coming to take me out for dinner, its going to cost him bundles too !!! I need to get into my shell suit, and tie my hair back because I cant be arsed to wash it" !!!!
My Mother God rest her soul was a real lady, allways immaculate, I never heard her swear, or insult anyone who really didn't earn the insult, and she was a very very successful business woman ( My Mum and Dad were joint directors of their own company which owned one of the biggest and popular hotels in this area, and believe me Mum was the driving force in the business, Dad was a lazy bugger playing golf as often as he could :o)) ) My mother despite her success in business, took 10 years out from working to be at home for us (me and 2 sisters) until we were all in secondary school, then she went back to being hands on in the family business.
These days they get social security to pay for their kids while cheating the state and having one or two part time jobs, and claim to be independent women !!
The independence is portraying the fact that they either don't know or don't care where the father is !! They "Dont need a man to support them"
When in fact every hard working tax paying man in the country is supporting them !!
Equality !!! Shove it !!
I want a lady and Im going to settle for Nothing less !!
I agree completely, on here, one of the most common things is a woman saying she wants to take care of a man( she obviously wants things from us as well, but if I speak for myself, these are things we are only too willing to give) For a woman to look after a man, does not demean her, it does not mean she is stupid or passive. If I support my wife and she sleeps with me, does that mean I pay for sex, no, these are interactions between men and women, and should be freely given, feminists would have you believe these women are brainless, well, I think the shoe is on the other foot as they seem to be far better educated, eloquent and have a better grasp on what is important in life
The biggest difference Trad is that Russian women Understand and Know what they are best at doing, and they value a real family the way it used to be here 30 to 60 years ago.
They want a husband who will provide a safe and secure home for them so that they can concentrate on taking spiritual care of him and their children !!!
Like Russian men, the only Spirit that UK women understand these days comes in bottles !!!
On the nights at the hotel when we had "Ladies nights" (though if you had seen them behave you would know that was an oxy moron, Ladies indeed !!) male strippers, drag acts etc, my Mother would work behind the bar and many times she would comment that the behaviour of the women at these functions made her ashamed to be a woman !!!
Women are home natural makers and supporters, "behind every successful man is a good woman !! "
Or if you live in the UK these days, "in front of every good man is the woman who took him to the cleaners and got the whole damn lot !!!"
It worked fine the way it was for 5000 years until 60 years ago it suddenly wasn't PC any more !! The whole world has gone stark raving bonkers !!
Political correctness is a pile of horse sh*t !!
I am a damn good provider, for which I want a wife who is a damn good mother and supporting partner, while I do what I must do to give her and our children the world on a silver platter.
I Don't want to be constantly competing with someone I love !!
As I have said, I met a girl in Holland on Wednesday, when I arrived I handed her 20 roses(forgot you shouldn't give even numbers of flowers to a Russian) a cd that I knew that she Liked, these things did not cost much, in the Uk you might have received a thank you if you were lucky, she carried the flowers round all day, each time we went to a cafe/restaurant, she insisted the proprietor put them in water.
When I went to see her when I was leaving, I took a small dutch doll as a present for her daughter, she cried and hugged me for ten minutes, I was really touched, I have to say, it makes you more inclined to uy an fsu girl a present than a uk/western one
I have been asked for presents by Uk girls and when you feel you are giving them under pressure, there is no pleasure in it, and there should be pleasure in te giving as well, nice to be on actually live with you Tim.:)
You know, anytime I ever gave a present, flowers or anything to a girl here where I live I felt it was expected of me and that really sucks. I never felt the happiness of truly feeling appreciated by my woman for anything I gave them (all of them over the years). This is one of the many reasons I am here. And you know guys, once your woman is here with you, you know american women are going to try and change her outlook. I am just always going to treat her like the princess she deserves to be, and to NEVER neglect her feelings or her thoughts.
Well crash, it becomes easy over time to neglect someones feelings and take them for granted, fsu or western, I just think because you get so much more back from an Fsu lady then its easier not to neglect her feelings
glad to see the thread is back on course and reading through the comments I can only add my agreement to those already expressed.
So many simple things we take for granted are received with such joy by these ladies almost makes you embarrassed.......such is the state of change in the west huh?
No wonder so many are heading east to find true happiness.
I am the ultimate feminist fighting the good fight every day for women's EQUAL RIGHTS!!!
The following is a summary of the equal rights I fight for on a daily basis for every single american woman:
1. Her right to PAY HER EQUAL SHARE when we go out to dinner.
2. Her right to lift the exact same amount of weight at the office, put the heavy water bottle in the water dispenser and move heavy objects whenever needed.
3. Her right to be accountable for every dollar she spends from the CHILD SUPPORT checks she receives from the man she divorced and is now fleecing and the loss of child custody or child support if she is found spending the money on herself instead of the child.
4. Her right to open her own damn door when we go somewhere.
5. Her right to get equal pay ONLY if and when she demonstrates she is capable of producing at the same levels and working the same long hours and days as her male counterparts.
6. Her right of knowing that the day she says: "I don't want to have sex with you" is the day she will hear "No problem, I will find someone else to give it to me"
7. Her right to pay in full for mandatory DNA testing of every child born to her to ensure the father is who she claims it is, with a clear understanding of heavy financial penalties if she is caught attempting to deceive a more affluent bloke than the real father.
8. Her right to lift or lower the toilet seat whenever she wants to without expecting others to do it for her.
9. Her right to pay exactly half the house expenses to live under the same roof with her man.
And the most important one....
10. The right to go F... herself when we, real men, tell her NO MORE!!
Don't you love the feminist movement....come on men, join up!!