There's no need to fantasize if she's yours already. ;)
I just think that publishing your tastes in an OPEN forum for girl-on-girl action that could be read by the fairer sex, would not be doing myself or anyone else any favours. You only have to read blu_craze's latest posts to see how he got caught out by two girls that knew each other. lol.
I have some wicked fantasies and they're best shared with a loved one than a hairy bloke ;)
You may be interested to hear of a Survey carried out last year by a Frenchman and published in the Daily Teleegraph...
Who are the best lovers in Europe?
The results were interesting.
In first place were the British (3 cheers!).. spent an average of 22 minutes on the case.
In fourth place were the French (18 minutes)much to the disappointment of the surveyer
In last place were the Russians,(would you believe it) 3 minutes!
Wel I am partly cheered that the British won, but if 13 minutes is our average, who is dragging my time down.:) Survey load of rubbish, I have a feeling that british men answered and Russian women.:)
We are talking about foreplay here, right? And not the whole thing?
If not it would seem that every single Russian man has a case of premature-ejactulation and I am quite certain that the entire populace is not afflicted with that malady.
I noticed that your survey did not cover American men. And while I cannot speak for all - that may be because when properly aroused we don't go for three minutes or eighteen.
I' guessing that the reslults are not in yet because for American men (like myself) foreplay time can only be properly measured with a calendar.
The concept of foreplay for men and women in the US differ drastically.....180 degrees on the nose!!
Women in the US consider a series of money spending activities prior to the actual act of coitus a fundamental part of the "foreplay" process.
In other words, forepplay properly executed from the US female point of view start the moment you pick her up to scort her to the mall for a shopping spree extravaganza....then dinner and a movie.
And don't forget the flowers and diamond earing, lol...
Foreplay for most US men can easily be reduced to checking once (twice for the more sophisticated lovers) to make sure she is wet.
GL: You are far too hard on your compatriots.
There are American men, such as myself, who extend ourselves for women (no pun intended) far more than checking to see if she is wet.
Similarly there are American women who are not entirely materialistic as you point out. I believe that the newsreports mentioned one was sighted just last Thursday in Wyoming. They do exist.
I make no claims over veracity. Most men's experience will range from prolonged lovemaking, lasting hours initially (nothing like exploring new ground) to a 'quickie' lasting a few minutes. 3, I think, is my record. (Needed to catch a bus).
Men's delivery is somewhat determined by female's expectations and their own ego as great lovers. The almighty orgasm is all. Wonder how many women have faked it to let their men off the hook (or go shopping).
Whether women are the same all over the world, I doubt it. The pressures are not the same.
Sorry GLTALLTOAD - but more recent news-reports have the locals describing the sighted creature as a much more common BigFoot and not the mythical "nonmaterialistic woman" which is believed to only exist in fantasy.
back to the subject of sex survey- 22mins. for Brits? I'd have to wear the whole carton of condoms to last that long. If she's new to me, I'm hoping to get the boxers off in time. lol
Let's not let this grand old topic get locked! How about resseurecting it and keping it on task?
This is a topic about the sexual aspect of our relationships with our prospective (and with some current) FSU women. After all, if all we wanted was someone to write to we could obtain a pen pal. If all I needed was to keep active I have my children. If all I wanted was someone to clean and cook for me I would hire a maid or housekeeper. If I wanted only a companion then I would get a dog. Well I want all of these things, but I want these to be packaged in the being of a lovely sexual creature; to whom I can give and receive great pleasure.
I am trying very hard to keep my conversations with the Lovely Lucy rated PG. But lately we've been slipping into pg-13 territory (we speak of taking showers together and the like). I am definately trying to hold off on the R (let alone x ratings until we can be together). Anyhow we have become both more intimate in our conversations, and more frank about our physical/sexual needs and desires. This is sure fun, but also a natural progression in our relationship
My ex-swine was such a swine, that I actually resented having to be intimate with her. After she left I came nigh ubto taking a vow of celibacy! But now, because of the kindness and traditional view of men and woman relationships of my FSU sweetheart, the thought of taking that vow is now in the sh*ter. What a radical concept to me, that I might make love to a woman to whom I am truly in love with!
I see NO point in any woman faking it !! If its not working for her bloody well say so, or you cant blame the man for thinking everything is rosy !!!
We DO need to be told !! We don't read minds !!
"After all, if all we wanted was someone to write to we could obtain a pen pal."
Exactly what I told my X FSU wife when she thought I was going to continue to support her and write to her while she got on with having another mans baby, and I would never see her again !!
Just get to the XXX and be done with it Ens !! Pussy footing around (pun intended !) is going to get boring way before you go there :o))
Have to be careful with "celibacy" if you are not it can blow up in your face !! ;o))
What a radical concept to me, that you use the word Sh*ter without any apology these days :o))
Have I contributed to your delinquency Ens` ? ;o))
"HOW SEXUALLY ACTIVE ARE RUSSIAN WOMEN KNOWN TO BE IN A MARRAGE ?"
It wasn't the sex in the marriage that was the problem with my X FSU wife, it was her Extra marital screwing around that messed it up !!!
Tim, I probabaly could not be a true delinquent if I tried. But at least I am trying. And yes, you have been a guiding light for me!
It is very interesting that we are both really getting turned on even in our fairly mild way of conversing. The sighs and passionate non-verbal vocalizations speak volumes. When we talk we are both overwelmed by sexual tension and desires. If I could instantly transport myself through the phone lines I think that we would be irretrievavbly lost in our passions for each other. We joke that we may not see the light of day together for days when we get together in July.
In some ways I am resisting the temptation to turn our phone calls into 900 number calls. It's just the two of us in our own way trying to preserve something really special for our time together.
I am so glad you wrote your experience with these expressions of future intimacy. I thought my current experiences were somewhat unique. This is happening to me now. We have not met. We have only talked on the phone once, but many letters (about 30) in 3 months. We send SMS daily and there is definitely a sexual overtone to everything, you know, lots of teasing and promises of when we meet.
I had assumed some would be normal, but thought ours was too soon, given we haven't met.
ens`,
well at least I excel in one field in my life :o) Bringing people dow to my level ;o))
Its been said that for me to end up in the gutter I would need to climb up there ;o)))