Colin, You need to seperate her from any Russian/Ukrainian men in your country... they provide too much of a interest for her because they have too much in common. I strongly recommend you not meet with thjis Ukrainian man.
I guess also that i should say my sister and friends warned me about a woman I was seeing. But I told them they were wrong. She is just going through troubled times said I.
In the words of Robert Cray -- "OOOOOOHHHHHH I was warned about your love. But I had to move on. Whether they are right or they are wrong. At least the mystery is gone. Had to find out for myself... and now the mystery is gone...
Been there -- good luck Colin.
But of course this was with an American beauty. So maybe it is different in Ukraine.
I am not disputing with you on what the Quran says. I already warned people on getting their pockets picked, I will close my pockets with a safety pin from now on, and I am not whining on being scammed.
it seems like she has come to the conclusion that life with you is slightly better than life without you.
thats not exactly love, is it.
I'm going through the same situation.
we both have reservations about each other. but were also at a point in our lives were we want to build a family.
do you mind if i ask, is there a purpose for your marriage? i mean, do you both have dreams of a family or something? do you have the same ideas about how to raise children? etc...
could you live a year with her without having sex? in other words, could you be good friends with her if sex wasn't in the equation.
probably the two of you are not soulmates, but maybe thats ok? 66% of the world doesn't believe in soulmates. (i.e arranged marriges) i think the key to a good relationship is two people who have the same values and are willing to work a little bit to make it a success.
ye i think u could have it exactly gecko, she lived away from home since we parted and realised maybe it wasnt so bad with me, she said just take it step by step see how it goes. Yes I want children and she is a very child orientated person before she would talk about it all the time.
Nothing came about with the Ukranian guy he lived 2 far away and had no car.
Well I advised colin not to take her back and I maintain that this advise was sound ... However ... I really hope it works out. I would say be careful though, in my experience slavic women can be very loving BUT its like they have an ability to detach themselves from their loving nature when they perceive they perceive that a significant lifestyle enhancement is up for grabs.
dmc - I advised against it and was lambasted as an uncaring and unsympathetic person... but regardless of whether or not she is from Ukraine, Alaska or Antarctica (not many there but it was to prove a point). Women are women. Some are genuine and loving. Some are just bitches. Some are scammers -- in all countries. Many have advised against this for my man Colin. He insists to continue in the charade. Maybe she will have a light bulb go off in her head that tells her this man really loves her and is the best thing that ever happened to her. Maybe he will have a light go off in his head realizing that she is nothing but a money grubbing whore. Maybe they kiss and make up and live happily ever after... as RB responded to 'smiling faces', they key word is 'sometimes'.
So it is in his court. He is still young enough to recover and to try it again. And I assure you he will. Hope I am wrong, but...